This leads me to another thought, the fear of not knowing what will happen if we risk the ending? Sometimes it's not always our time to know how things are going to shake out, sometimes we just have to be okay with ok-ness and not know hot it's all going to turn out, surrender + risk= reward.
So then, how do you deal with things that are ending, weather it's relationship, a job, moving to a new space, home or dwelling? Endings are difficult for most of us, no matter what the level of change. I have found comfort in simply having the awareness of a shift happening and that "hey, I'm in a change state" therefore, I am going to pass on the book club tonight, or I am going to tend to some reading, laundry, a bath etc. instead of doing this______________fill in the bland. Without resistance, we are free to be open to what is really trying to be sent to us. A message, a new connection, a suggestion or even a song, something that creates a scene of calm, security and inner knowing, inner peace. And sometimes we just want to hear, everything is going to be okay.
So next time you find yourself going down that slippery slope of change, transition, no matter how small or how grand, know, this too shall pass, without this ending, there is no space for something new, a beginning, just waiting FOR YOU!